Merry Christmas

A Truly Merry Christmas…..Said by an Al-Anon member just before Christmas: “Someone should find Norman Rockwell’s body and put a stake through his heart.” My Christmas will not be what Rockwell says it should be. It will be what it is and within what it is there will be much for which I can be … More Merry Christmas

Free to Love

There is a huge difference between feeling loved and feeling I am lovable. If I have to have your love to feel I am OK then I tend to be a people pleaser. My neediness gobbles down the love and praise from you and then I have to look for more. I have to have my … More Free to Love

Living Life

If I was hearing the phrase mind your own business for the first time w/o any associations I would think it meant take care off your own affairs.If I was hearing the slogan” Live and let live” for the first time” I would understand that it is a wise and wonderful suggestion to really be … More Living Life