Fragmentation

A Therapist friend of mine, who has an enormous amount of recovery experience, gave me a very useful way to look at maturity. She said that an infant has a highly fragmented view of reality. In contrast, a mature person has a much more unregimented point of view. An infant experiences the fragment of reality … More Fragmentation

Wedding Promises

One of my daughters was uncomfortable with the traditional marriage vows. When I performed her wedding I wrote these marriage promises for her. As a part of the ceremony I had the couple sign a nicely printed copy of the Promises. Attendees were asked to sign on the back of the signed promises as witnesses. … More Wedding Promises

Fragmentation

A Therapist friend of mine, who has an enormous amount of recovery experience, gave me a very useful way to look at maturity. She said that an infant has a highly fragmented view of reality. In contrast, a mature person has a much more unregimented point of view. An infant experiences the fragment of reality … More Fragmentation

The Healer

 Growth is the prime indicator in Christ’s view of real honest faith. Not growth for growth sake, but healthy growth that leads to healthy fruit. “Some thirty fold Some sixty fold Some a hundred fold.” What is meant by fruit? The Apostle Paul gives us the definition of fruit. The fruit of the Spirit is … More The Healer

Human Need

                                                 There are three approaches I can take as I am faced with human need. Only one of the approaches allows me to feel satisfied with my performance while at the same … More Human Need

Thoughts On Growing

I have worked hard for decades now trying to grow emotionally and spiritually. I have worked hard on being an open and emotionally available. I don’t think growth and increasing strength is possible for me without allowing people to touch my inner life. That is because I desperately, consistently and daily need the wisdom and … More Thoughts On Growing