Free to Love

There is a huge difference between feeling loved and feeling I am lovable. If I have to have your love to feel I am OK then I tend to be a people pleaser. My neediness gobbles down the love and praise from you and then I have to look for more. I have to have my … More Free to Love

Facing Death

When my dad killed himself with my gun I was 15 years old. As I went by the casket at the end of the service I wanted to touch him one last time si I reached over and touched his hand. I was shocked it was so cold. I am forever glad that I did. … More Facing Death

Good Ideas 4

The following ideas have helped me. I want to parent myself the way I wish I had my girls. If one person in a relationship changes, the relationship changes, but not necessarily for the better. If one person in a relationship gets better, the other person either gets better too, or else gets worse. -Living … More Good Ideas 4

Good Ideas 3

The following ideas have helped me. -I want my one thought to be,”I have this good day. How am I going to use it?” -I traded my doormat in on a flying carpet. -In a co-dependent relationship, both parties make each other weak. -If I am coasting, I am going downhill. -When I desperately needed … More Good Ideas 3