Unchanging Love

The following is part of some correspondence between me and a good friend. Dear Roberta, To me, perfectionism is a monstrous idol that demands more and more sacrifice no matter what I feed it. That was doubly true back in the days that I did mission work. Conviction is when God points out a specific … More Unchanging Love


There is a Christian short song that is Called “To Be Used Of God.”. I don’t like that song. The last thing God would do with me is to use me. I wanted all my decisions about my Children to be based on what they would enjoy not what I wanted. I resolved to say … More Fathering


6 Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke? 7 Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out … More Trump

OT Homosexuality

There is a verse in the OT that says God hates homosexuality. Let’s dig into that a bit.!. Remember wives were generally considered property in those days. Not in the Bible but in the general culture. Remember there were no effective condoms or no antibiotics. That meant that if a man cheated on his wife … More OT Homosexuality

How To Get Better

  I don’t think I can deal with harmful activities because they are wrong or sinful. I think the law provokes sin as in Romans. Paul says to Timothy “All things are lawful but all things are not expedient’. I have never heard that verse preached on. God says be holy for I am holy. … More How To Get Better

What I Value In A Woman

These items are personal to me. This is my list of what I feel is attractive in a woman-Able to communicate openly.-Comfortable sexually.-Affectionate.-Reasonably well informed.-Independent, not needing a man to feel complete.-Comfortable at their own economic status.-Good sense of humor.-Growing emotionally.-Enjoyable-Someone I like looking at across a restaurant table.I don’t think an attractive women has … More What I Value In A Woman

An Ocean Of Love

The Deer crashes through the forestMade desperate by the gun.The lion chases the goat who interror is made to run.The mother of the child is frightenedShe fears and hates the snake.The whole forest dreads the bearand the havoc he can make. But a new voice comes in love and great powerAnd announces the arrival of … More An Ocean Of Love

A Deep Healing

In the years I was working hard to deliver my personality from the ravages of my upbribging I made an important discovery. I learned that it is relatively easy to empty out the pain of a tough memory. I only had to talk about it with good friends or at an Alan-Anon meeting or with … More A Deep Healing