I am thinking it may be time for me to have another realationship. My last one ended about three years ago. When it ended I felt very unhappy with my role in it. I thought I needed to improve my relationship ability.
I now think of relationship as a triangle with God at the top of the triangle and the woman on one corner and me on the other. In that picture I move closer to the woman and she to me by moving up the sides of the triangle each of us closer to God at the top. The closer we get to God the closer we get toward each other and the closer we get to each other the closer we get to God.