These items are personal to me. This is my list of what I feel is attractive in a woman
-Able to communicate openly.
-Reasonably well informed.
-Independent, not needing a man to feel complete.
-Comfortable at their own economic status.
-Good sense of humor.
-Someone I like looking at across a restaurant table.
I don’t think an attractive women has to have all of these things but her characteristics need represented on this list. Also, she likely would be working on other of these attributes.I have worked long and hard on my own attractiveness.Maybe I will meet a woman who finds me attractive according to her own view of attractiveness.